50 year old married man in love with a 27 year old leasbian woman
Hi in my opinion my problem is probably not a common one, I met someone about 2 years ago she is a lesbian with a girlfriend but we became very close and on one occasion we had sex. I'm very conflicted for two reasons: one shes a lesbian with a girlfriend and two Im married for many years. Not sure how to proceed I know I love her but Im also realistic and feel a bit foolish for feeling this way. I dont want to hurt anyone and also dont know how to deal with this situation, Im sure in a different time and place something may have come of this but what do I do now. I love her i know she has feeelings for me but again shes a lesbian and Im married. Well have at it Stella!
Answer from Stella:
Hi 50 year old,
I know you are emotionally involved here, but if you could just step back and look honestly at this situation, there is only one way to go.
Save your wife the pain of divorce and yourself the misery of trying to make a solid relationship with someone whose sexual orientation is not on men!
Disentangle yourself from this hopeless relationship immediately and let yourself heal. Then work hard to make your marriage the best it can be.
Hope this helps!
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