50 year old wife of 18 years left me for lesbian woman.
My wife of 18 years has left me for a lesbian woman. We have 3 children. She has never had any homosexual tendencies and we have children. Is this some kind of mid-life crisis or is this for real? What should I do now?
Answer from Stella:
I'm so very sorry to hear of your recent loss. When a grown woman leaves to be with another woman, it is not likely to be any kind of mid-life crisis.
She has probably known she was homosexual for years but finally got up the courage to follow her sexual preference openly. There is virtually no chance of her "going back" the way things were. I know this must be devastating for you, but you will need to accept the fact she is gone for good and begin to grieve and heal from this loss.
Good luck to you and your children...
Hope this helps!
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