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October 01, 2013

Love Bytes, Issue #062-- Pregnant & Alone * Love at 82 * True Love

October, 2013
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"Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable."
   ~Bruce Lee

Dear Stella, I'm Pregnant and Alone


Dear Stella,

I am having a baby in 3 weeks time and the father left me. He says he does not love me anymore and he can not get over his ex wife. I love him but don't contact him anymore. It has been three weeks that we are not together.

I love him a lot and miss him. He has got 3 kids and this is his 4th one. Please tell me what I must do to get him back!

---Charlene/South Africa


Dear Charlene,

First let me say that I am so sorry you find yourself abandoned by this man at such a vulnerable and sensitive time of your life. Right now, you have so much hormone and emotion raging, that I am sure you're not thinking straight! So for now, let this relationship go and concentrate on childbirth and enjoying your new baby. That is most important. I think the baby will actually help you through this. (S)he needs you!

Now after a few months have passed, I hope you will come to a point where you can look back on this hopeless relationship with a little more common sense and wisdom. First of all, what kind of a man would abandon a woman who is going to have his baby within the month! Secondly, he says he doesn't love you and he still loves his ex wife. Then let him go! You may feel like you still want him right now, but you would be buying yourself a life of misery if you hooked up with a man who didn't love you. Your "love" would turn to resentment, then probably to hatred. It would take time, but that is probably how your relationship would end up. Save yourself the trouble.

You say he has 3 kids, this is his fourth. He may well have even more children, you know. There have probably been other women in his past. Be realistic. Is this the kind of man you really want to spend the rest of your life with? Forget it. Let him go, concentrate on making a good life for you and the baby. Accept yourself and learn to love yourself. You are special, and don't need to settle for a life of misery! Given time and self acceptance, you will find happiness again, Charlene.

Good luck to you and the baby!

*** Read more great advice for the lovelorn here: Dear Stella


Love Knows No Rules



It's true love! 82-year old marries 28-year old

The couple attended a ceremony in honor of the Chinese who have worldwide influences at the Peking University in Beijing March 31, 2007. An award of lifetime achievement was conferred to Yang at the event.

Always holding hands whenever making an appearance in public, the couple attracts many people's interest. You begin to believe that there's real love between the 82-year-old Chinese American Nobel laureate of physics, Chen Ning Yang, 82, and his 28-year-old wife, Weng Fan.

Are you the one to say they aren't really in love? Unconventional, perhaps, but this could be true love just the same!


You know it's true love when...



You lose a tire, and your wife counterbalances your tractor for you!
(This photo was sent from a friend in Sweden.)

*Romance Tip: 

Most people underestimate the sense of smell and the overall effect it has on our emotional, mental and physical state. Specially blended aromas can subtly set the stage for sensual and memorable  encounters...

learn the benefits of Aromatherapy for lovers here...


We hope you have enjoyed this issue of Love Bytes Ezine. Each month, we will bring you another inspiring photo, quote or poem, plus fresh new articles on love, intimacy, dating and relationships.


'Cause if you don't have love, nothing else matters...


~Stella and the girls from

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