I am 25 years old and I have been dating the same girl for the past 4 years and up until now everything has been great. It's just as of late she has been very clingy and it has really started to bother me.
Also I have have been asking her to move in with me for over 3 years now but she has it stuck in her head that couples that move in together before marriage have a high chance or divorce. I have let these, lets say problems just be pushed under the rug for so long.
I am feeling like the spark has gone out in our relationship. She is only my 2nd serious girlfriend I have ever had so I don't know how to deal with this. I am actually the only boyfriend she has ever had.
Recently I have been talking alot with a female coworker and over time I guess I have developed feelings for her and she has for me also. I am not the kind of person that would cheat but about a week ago at an after work party I drank too much and me and my co worker kissed each other.
I have felt terrible ever since that has happened because it has intensified my feelings for my coworker. I just don't know what to do. I would greatly appreciate any advice anyone could give me.
You are young, you are single, and you don't live with anyone. Where's the problem?
I know you have some emotional issues going on, but my advice to you is this:
Don't press the issue with either girl. No decision needs to be made right now. Don't move in with anyone. Date both girls, and don't make it a secret from either one.
In time your true feelings will surface and your proper path will be clear.