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Will he want me back again?  I met a man in 2001 and we dated up until Jan/08. After I had found him a good paying job in Alberta and he knew I would be moving into to a small apartment ...

Ready To Walk, But Just Cant Leave  I'm a 25 year old recent college grad. After 6 years of school, having 2 children, and a whole lot of stress and life ups and downs, I'm ready to make ...

Me or the Dog  My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We have a great relationship with only one problem: his dog.

He is utterly convinced that ...

The old 1-2  Me and my fiance have been together for about a year now. We were in love from the very start and our relationship moved fast. We moved in after a month,...

Am I Invisible?  I feel so lonely and depressed, I don't know what to do. Hubby doesn't even act like he is the least bit interested in me anymore. He has barely said 2 ...

Gross Gas Problem  I have a problem that is probably as much medical as it is relationship oriented, and sort of gross. So, let me apologize in advance. I am engaged to ...

Our 8:00 Rule  During our 2 years together, my husband has always had a soft spot for nudity. We sort of have this understanding or rule that we call our 8:00 rule. This ...

Hubby Wants to Meet Evil Mom  I am a 23 year old new mom. My husband wants to meet my mom and have her as a part of our lives. We are in Texas. She is in Florida. She made a plea ...

Major Bump in the Road... the Baby Might Be His!  Maybe someone can help me!! I have been seeing this guy for a few months and I am totally and completely in love with him. I was going to uproot my life ...

Forbidden to Wear a Bra!  I am a just turned 31 year old, married, mother of an 11 year old girl. My husband insists that at nights, on weekends, and on vacations, including summer ...

Finding the Courage to move on  I am a 47 year old married woman with 5 beautiful adult children. Married for 31 years and this month will make 32. I have been with him for more than ...

Marriage for Money?  I am 24 and have been married for 5 months. I married for money, not my husband's, but my father-in-law's; who promised to help my dad out with some business ...

Older woman, younger man...  I'm 50 and have been in a love relationship with a younger man , 27 yrs old, who's a graduate student. After practically living together for a year I ...

My Ex   We split up 5 days ago and he moved straight in with his new lady. We had been together for 12 years when he left me and our 10 yr old daughter. He told ...

Should I Hope & Wait?  I met this guy thru online dating almost a month ago. We started chatting and texting all the time. We had this amazing connection that I never felt with ...

Heartbroken but Committed  Until a week ago, I was a happily married man and I thought my wife and I were going to be together forever. Then I found an ex-boyfriend of hers on the ...

The Down-hill Slide  My husband and I have been together for seven years this June. And we are on a downhill slide where we are fighting all the time. And about every little ...

Now She Wants a Second Chance...  I was with a girl who I truly loved, but things went wrong in our relationship and she left me. I practically begged her for a second chance, but she denied ...

Got Scared By The Opportunity  I have a very close friend who I have gotten feelings for recently. It is somewhat mutual. I was with her today and there were several times it seemed ...

loves me loves me not  Dear Stella,
I am a 50 year old woman and have been dating a 51 year old man for 13 months. I told him 7 months ago that I have strong feelings for him;...

Help...  What will I do if the one I truly love doesn't love me back?
I have done all that I can to show her how much I love her.. but still I can't feel her love ...

My Parents Disapprove of Him  I'm in love with a guy who is 8 years older than me. I'm 19 and he's 27. He wants to marry me and is willing to wait for me to finish school. My parents ...

trying to understand  I am 23 years old and I have been with my bf for a little over a year. Recently we have kinda cooled down with our relationship because he feels he is ...

Should I let go?  I've been dating him for a year and he doesn't want to be alone with me because he thinks that I will try to initiate sex. We haven't had sex because ...

The one that got away...  I have been in a marriage to the perfect wife and mother to our 9 year old boy for 10 years. My wife has done nothing but be true and faithful the entire ...

Hooked on porn! (confused woman)  I have lived with my fiance' for 5 yrs now. We love each other so much and we have good times together all the time but there is a problem; he is hooked ...

Should I Propose?  For the past couple of months I had been trying to work out a reconciliation with an ex who dumped me and is now with someone else. I was on the rebound ...

Wide Ride or JLo Butt?  I am a 31 year-old woman and newlywed. I have a figure that although I am not heavy, flares at the hips. I have a sort of JLO/Beyonce butt.

My husband,...

Stay or go?  I have been with my current boyfriend for 2 years. I can't help but feel unhappy with him, but I am afraid that it is just my own fear of commitment in ...

Sex every 4 years?  We got married fall 2003. I was 30 and my husband was 35. At the end of 2004 we had our child. Since the birth of the child, my husband and I have been ...

Torn Three Ways...  I am a 17 year old girl. I love a guy and we are in a relationship for the past 4 years. First it was all fine between us but gradually as we have grown ...

Is it a Deal Breaker or Not?  While "snooping" around my boyfriend's apartment I came across his phone bill and discovered that he has been calling local "chat" lines when we are apart....

I don't want to loose him ...  Me and my boyfriend were so in love when we first got together, it was perfect. We were inseparable. I moved in with him and his 2 year old son and we ...

Stay a Family or Be a Single Parent?  I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years; we have known each other for over 6 years. We have a 21-month-old child together. I love him very much ...

Are we ready for marriage?   We met in May of 2004, got pregnant in Sept 2004, moved in together in Feb of 2005 and have been together ever since. I believe that for the first year ...

I'm Jealous  DEAR STELLA: I have a bf now...but I cannot control my jealousy to my bf although he loves me... What should I do?
FROM STELLA: Dear Maureen, First of ...