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for the love of the game 
I am not sure if there is a problem,My wife and I have been together for 15 years I am the lucky one she has always been there for me as I have her and …

I am too shy. 
Hi Stella, I have a problem that I had from like 4 months. I am learning the German language at the moment. and I am in a class that is called (wilkommenklasse) …

Love marriage  
Hi Stella, I have recently married the guy I love. I think the connection is more from my side than him. I was the one to propose him. Things went …

Been in love with Ex's sister for 16 years 
Dear Stella, I fell in love with my ex-partners younger sister since 16 years ago. Once at a restaurant we locked eyes over the table & I'll never forget …

unwanted love, work colleague 
I'm a male around 45. I'm married with kids but unfortunately I love a female work colleague and think of her all the time, day and night, which makes …

maybe there really is no fool like an old fool ... 
48 hours ago, I was on a dating site, when this women initiated a chat with me. Having been scammed 3 or 4 times already, I pretty much now know a lot …

Younger Boyfriend 
Hello,I am dating my friend and he is three years younger than I. He is stubborn and rude to me most of the time when we are …

Cancer? The one ?  
Dear Stella My name is p and i m having a serious problem with my bf. Here is our story: my bf and i met on a paid dating website and we live in Asia. …

Does he like me? 
There's this boy in my class and I really like him. I am too shy to say something and it's not very casual in our class to randomly start talking to other …

Need advice! Going crazy! 
Hey, I need advice, About a couple to almost a few weeks ago, I had met a very beautiful woman on a dating site. She's. 34 year old divorcee with two …

How to win her back? 
Dear Stella, I have a problem with a girl I was in relationship for 10 months. I start from the beginning. We met online via dating app. Two months …

Whom To Choose? 
In 2006 I had been Divorced after 17 years form a man that had a temper problem. I had dated about a year before I met this other man online. He was nice, …

love or guilt? 
Dear Stella, I am very confused of what I am feeling right now. I can't determine whether I'm inlove or guilty. Here's my story: A guy and I were classmates …

How do I ask if he really is serious about me?  
I have been going on a date with this guy for 2 times now for the past month. We talk a lot over the net though. Well, technically, those were not our …

My long distance romance issue what do you think? 
So I was dating this guy that lived 12 hours away and we were together for 4 months. I went to visit him for my birthday weekend for 5 days, I could tell …

old man 
Dear Stella, I am 74 years of age , i've been married to the same woman for 54 years, not all of them great, but we have survived. 3 years ago, I met …

MILF 
I need advice... not a lecture...i need to know what HE is thinking..here's my story. Last summer, i accidentally met a 17 year old guy through my daughter. …

Dont know what to do? 
Dear stella, im really in a need of someones help.im from india and come from cultured family.im 23 years old and is in love from 10 years that is …

I cheated on my BF with the father of my child, but I want my BF back! What do I do? 
Im the biggest idiot. I HATE MYSELF for what I did and take full responsibility for my actions but I need some advice! I got pregnant pretty quickly …

Does he like me or not? 
Dear Stella, I've been liking this guy for a couple of months now. The problem is I don't know if he likes me. We've started to become good friends …

Janet 
This is true but crazy. I am a 78 sexy lady. My married neighbor is 68 and we have become almost intimate. I know he loves his wife, but we are drawn together …

Is it worthwhile to pursue a relationship with my crush or should I forget about it? 
Dear Stella I'm 19 years old and I have had a crush on this guy (who is 20 years old) for about ten years.  He's cute, smart, funny and outgoing.  I met …

I can't get over him and we've never even been together 
Dear Stella, This is probably going to be really long, but I really need your help. Even more so, you don't even need to read this monstrosity, I just …

I want to get out of an abusive 5yr live in relationship but i love him 
We have been together for 5yrs,I am 34 and he is 28 he screams and shouts Calls me bad names.I have a 10 year old son and we Often argue in front of him. …

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Can't get over my partners past 
I am a lesbian & am in a relationship with my partner of about a year I love & care about her more than I have any other girlfriend I just have some …

Broken Hearted T 
I have been in a relationship with a woman for 5 years. The first 4 years, she was married. Although she says she never really loved him, just married …

50 year old married man in love with a 27 year old leasbian woman 
Hi in my opinion my problem is probably not a common one, I met someone about 2 years ago she is a lesbian with a girlfriend but we became very close and …

Dezzi92 
Dear, Stella My boyfriend (18 years old) and i (19 years old) have been dating for almost a year and a half and he still havent met my mom. Its not that …

50 year old wife of 18 years left me for lesbian woman. 
My wife of 18 years has left me for a lesbian woman. We have 3 children. She has never had any homosexual tendencies and we have children. Is this some …

Terrible heart break 
Well it all started in my beginning of my university life, on my orientation a met this girl and I had a crush on her, we two became close since the first …

Want to be more than friends with her 
Dear Stella, I have fallen in love with a girl two years younger then me. I haven’t told her that i like her, but i have tried to show it with kindness, …

confused 
i m in college in my 2ND year..i have been in love (or infatuation) with this guy in my group ..well he is a bit confusing because other times he doesn't …

We met 29 years ago...  
I met a boy 29 years ago, we fell in love and we got pregnant. Before I could tell this boy about our baby my mother moved me away and failed to let him …

Labels? Or no? 
I met this guy almost a year ago at my job. We have been "together" since. I spend 95% of my time at his house. We do so much together and I have met his …

in love with a man i had an affair with 
I have been married for 18 years and i feel i have nothing to contribute to my marriage- so i had an affair well its been 13 years i have seen this man …

My best friend...in his 30's...told my 16 yr old daughter he is in love with her...Is this illegal? 
Hi...I've been looking for an answer online to the above question. My best friend of MANY years claims to have developed intense feelings for my 16 year …

I really don't know what to do anymore! 
I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 3 years older than me. We both are in a long distance relationship and have known each other since last three years. He lives …

waiting for a love ring  
I've been with Robert for 12 years. We had our share of the up's and down's of our relationship, we are at a healthy relationship together and I feel …

I'm in love with the worst person I could ever fall for... 
I met him when I was a freshman in high school, and he was a senior. He played my friend. He had sex with her, and never spoke to her after. I had no idea, …

My guy friend drives me insane 
Hello I am a 22 year old female living in NY with a huge problem. My guy friend drives me insane. Yes he is a few years younger then me (19) but he confuses …

What can I do? 
Some years ago I met a guy. We liked each other from the very first days even though this was mainly revealed through the "language" we created - eye contact, …

I truly regret what I've done.. 
I was very in love with this guy. We're schoolmates in college and he knows me. My friends tell him that I have a crush on him so from then on, I can't …

Love 
I have a big problem, can you give me some advice, please ? ? There is a girl (who i still love) that i met 3 years ago when i was really really shy …

want my love back to me 
i and my lover fell in love with each other 1 yr ago...and we made a little physical attachments with each other...she thought it wrong and due to this …

I am confused...Is she making me work hard for it? 
I met this girl a year and a half ago. We were both into each other and in turn I got really busy and never called her. I ran into a mutual acquaintance …

Lack of Trust  
Hello, my girlfriend of nearly four years has been breaking up with me, four times in the last month, then getting back together. The core of this issue …

In Love But Have Had Doubts 
Dear Stella, I have been in love with the coolest man that I have ever met for almost 3 years. Every other relationship I have been in with a man (except …

What to do? 
I'm in love with someone! I know, I'm only 14, but I really am in love. Only problem is, I don't know if he likes me. I know he's had a crush on an idiotic …

Moving into my fiance's house 
Hi Stella, I'm a very self-sufficient woman who owns two properties in the DC area. My fiance also owns three. Two years ago we went house looking …

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Is this a phase or am I really not in love? 
My boyfriend and I have been together for three years - high school sweethearts, currently in college and we're each other's first loves! I know for sure …

My Guy Likes Porn: I need another persons's opinion... 
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and we have been living together for almost 2 months. Before moving in together, we had this issue …

Hurt & confused 
I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now. However we have recently split. He says he wants to work things out with me. You see, he has lied and …

Marriage Problems 
My husband and I have been married for almost a year. For the past couple of months, we have been having some problems. We argue pretty much all the time. …

I got cheated on, and she left me. 
My wife and I were got married on September 19, 2008, though in total we've been together for 6 years. My wife left me for another man, kicked me out of …

Dazed and Confused 
Have been married for over 20 years. Have never cheated and neither has she. However, for the last year I have developed a friendly relationship with a …

Confused 
I am 29, and have been dating this man for 10 months. He isn't and never has been affectionate. We have kissed maybe a handful of times. He doesn't hug …

Aged 15, going on 16 and never been in love 
Dear Stella, I've just left secondary school and im moving onto college. But there's a problem. I've never been in love. I haven't even had a crush. …

Brian 
Dear Stella, I married Adina back in October of 2008. It was love at first sight. Lately, I have seen some changes in her. No, I don't think that there …

My BF can't deal that I defeated him 
Dear Stella Basically, I think my boyfriend is being really pissy over something I didn't think was a big deal. We were talking the other day about …

Tied Between Two 
I am in a relationship with a man with children. We have been living together and things are good; we don't argue or fight, and the kids accept me as …

Lonely and Unsure 
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 7 years off and on. We live together now and we have a 16 month old and new born now. We used to love …

long distant relationship 
I've finally found someone real special, better than anyone I have ever been with. I am in military family and I had to move from Louisiana to New york. …

Getting my girl back 
I had a girlfriend for two years, after which we took a break. The break was supposed to help us realize how much we wanted each other back, but things …

My girlfriend doesn't trust me and has now left me 
The title pretty much says it all. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years and I love her more than anything on this Earth. I would give up everything …

Did Video Games Kill My Marriage? 
My wife of four years just told me she doesn't love me anymore. She says she still cares for me but doesn't feel the same as when we dated/got married. …

Confused 
I am 25 years old and I have been dating the same girl for the past 4 years and up until now everything has been great. It's just as of late she has been …

Husband or College Sweetheart? 
Dear Stella, I have really messed things up. I am a very conservative woman in all aspects of my life and have never been a risk-taker. I have done …

trying to understand 
I am 23 years old and I have been with my bf for a little over a year. Recently we have kinda cooled down with our relationship because he feels he is …

Confused? She sends mixed signals? 
I met this woman back in February by chance and we hit it off. We live 5 hours apart and the distance made it difficult. We decided to back off and when …

Will he want me back again? 
I met a man in 2001 and we dated up until Jan/08. After I had found him a good paying job in Alberta and he knew I would be moving into to a small apartment …

Ready To Walk, But Just Cant Leave 
I'm a 25 year old recent college grad. After 6 years of school, having 2 children, and a whole lot of stress and life ups and downs, I'm ready to make …

Me or the Dog 
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We have a great relationship with only one problem: his dog. He is utterly convinced that …

The old 1-2 
Me and my fiance have been together for about a year now. We were in love from the very start and our relationship moved fast. We moved in after a month, …

Am I Invisible? 
I feel so lonely and depressed, I don't know what to do. Hubby doesn't even act like he is the least bit interested in me anymore. He has barely said 2 …

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Gross Gas Problem 
I have a problem that is probably as much medical as it is relationship oriented, and sort of gross. So, let me apologize in advance. I am engaged to …

Our 8:00 Rule 
During our 2 years together, my husband has always had a soft spot for nudity. We sort of have this understanding or rule that we call our 8:00 rule. …

Hubby Wants to Meet Evil Mom 
I am a 23 year old new mom. My husband wants to meet my mom and have her as a part of our lives. We are in Texas. She is in Florida. She made a plea …

Should I let go? 
I've been dating him for a year and he doesn't want to be alone with me because he thinks that I will try to initiate sex. We haven't had sex because …

The one that got away... 
I have been in a marriage to the perfect wife and mother to our 9 year old boy for 10 years. My wife has done nothing but be true and faithful the entire …

Major Bump in the Road... the Baby Might Be His! 
Maybe someone can help me!! I have been seeing this guy for a few months and I am totally and completely in love with him. I was going to uproot my life …

Forbidden to Wear a Bra! 
I am a just turned 31 year old, married, mother of an 11 year old girl. My husband insists that at nights, on weekends, and on vacations, including summer …

Hooked on porn! (confused woman) 
I have lived with my fiance' for 5 yrs now. We love each other so much and we have good times together all the time but there is a problem; he is hooked …

Finding the Courage to move on 
I am a 47 year old married woman with 5 beautiful adult children. Married for 31 years and this month will make 32. I have been with him for more than …

Marriage for Money? 
I am 24 and have been married for 5 months. I married for money, not my husband's, but my father-in-law's; who promised to help my dad out with some business …

Wide Ride or JLo Butt? 
I am a 31 year-old woman and newlywed. I have a figure that although I am not heavy, flares at the hips. I have a sort of JLO/Beyonce butt. My husband, …

Older woman, younger man... 
I'm 50 and have been in a love relationship with a younger man , 27 yrs old, who's a graduate student. After practically living together for a year I …

My Ex  
We split up 5 days ago and he moved straight in with his new lady. We had been together for 12 years when he left me and our 10 yr old daughter. He told …

Should I Hope & Wait? 
I met this guy thru online dating almost a month ago. We started chatting and texting all the time. We had this amazing connection that I never felt with …

Heartbroken but Committed 
Until a week ago, I was a happily married man and I thought my wife and I were going to be together forever. Then I found an ex-boyfriend of hers on the …

The Down-hill Slide 
My husband and I have been together for seven years this June. And we are on a downhill slide where we are fighting all the time. And about every little …

Now She Wants a Second Chance... 
I was with a girl who I truly loved, but things went wrong in our relationship and she left me. I practically begged her for a second chance, but she denied …

Got Scared By The Opportunity 
I have a very close friend who I have gotten feelings for recently. It is somewhat mutual. I was with her today and there were several times it seemed …

loves me loves me not 
Dear Stella, I am a 50 year old woman and have been dating a 51 year old man for 13 months. I told him 7 months ago that I have strong feelings for him; …

help... 
What will I do if the one I truly love doesn't love me back? I have done all that I can to show her how much I love her.. but still I can't feel her love …

My Parents Disapprove of Him 
I'm in love with a guy who is 8 years older than me. I'm 19 and he's 27. He wants to marry me and is willing to wait for me to finish school. My parents …

Silently pining over him 
First thing's first: my friend and I likes the same guy. I act as an older sister to this friend of mine and it feels like liking the guy she has been …

Kelsey  
I have liked my best friend for years and he likes me now and he is 2 years older than me but he said he can't date me because he is going to jail for …

Am I headed for trouble 
My wife and I have been having a lot of fun that has led to great sex,she has started wearing tops that are more revealing it will depend on where we are …

advice about my problem 
i am struggling with a problem. i have loved a guy some 5 years back he have proposed me and after some months i have agreed soon after agreeing he have …

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Ex boyfriend took my ring, and now won't give it back 
Dear Stella, My now ex-boyfriend and I had been together for a little over a year when he broke up with me for the first time (yes, it happened more then …

Sick love 
I had a boyfriend in my last year in high school. We've been through a year. We got an on and off relationship for about 6 years, without seeing each other …

Not keeping words 
Dear Stella, Hi, im 26years old, and i need some advices to fix my relationship problem. I have been dating with this girl for 16 months and i already …

Should I let go or keep fighting for it? 
I've been dating this guy for a year and our relationship is not so good but I really love him. One of his friend tried talking to me and I told him about …

Tragedy in my relationship 
I have been in a relationship with a woman for a little over three years. It hasn't always been smooth, or easy, in fact, sometimes downright volatile. …

Will She? Or Will I? 
Dear Stella, I Need an Advice. It was Just, I have a Problem about my Friend who I Love. I met her when I was in grade 6, and I always works with her …

What is this thing? 
Dear Stella, 8 months ago I started working at this new company and I met this guy. From the first second I had the feeling he had a good impression …

In a dilemma reg marriage 
Dear stella, I'm from india. i hv never been in love before. thru a common frn was introduced to a guy. he proposed me after a month as our interests …

I feel unworthy! 
Hey there, I don't blame you if you're too busy to answer this, but here goes. I'm seventeen and I've liked this guy for a bit over a month now but I …

Need advice as to whether to end a marriage 
A few weeks ago I asked my wife to follow me to a motorcycle dealer to get my bike serviced. When we arrived she walked up and threw my truck keys on the …

I want my ex to want me again. 
my ex boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. it was an on and off relationship. yet with all the issues we had, we always chose to stay together. …

i can't choose 
I'm 22 year old girl since high school I've been always been madly in love with this guy since high school we've been through many things together …

Dear Stella, 
I'm sixteen years old and I've never entered a relationship before. I guess you could say that I'm that typical nerdy girl who focuses a lot on her studies. …

Hurt, regret, guilt 
Hey not sure how this works. I've been feeling very depressed lately and wanted some advice. This is kind of long but here it goes. I've been going out …

still love my ex girlfriend 
dear stella , my name jason and im 19 . here i have a problem about my relationship . i have a girlfriend name mel and our relationship already …

regular messups..!! 
Dear Stella...!! plz help..!! I" have been with a guy for almost a year...!! I" was the one who initiated this relationship..!! after two months we started …

Which way do I go? 
My problem is this. In high school I had a "fling" With a guy. One nite stand. Through the years I found out he had been looking for me for years The …

Tell or not? 
Dear Stella, I'm in love with this Guy so in love with him that my heart aches constantly for him I can't stop thinking about him his smile and his laugh …

A or B? 
I have a very serious problem. Few months ago, i was in a relation with my cousin named A, we really loved eachother and we also had wedding plans but …

Move on with someone else or wait until I've actually moved on? 
Dear Stella, I don't know what to do. I just came out of a relationship three months ago. The relationship didn't last very long and it's time for me …

i want him to love me what do i do? 
There was guy in my college who was alone and reserved to due to his complex of his weight. I became his friend and helped him out of his problems and …

I don't know what went wrong. 
Dear Stella, I liked this guy for over a year and he never really noticed me. At a party one night, we ended up cuddling and he brought me home and we …

Is she intrested? Am I forgotten ? 
I am in love with a girl and have dated her for two years, but due to some stupid arguments and the fact she got a little tired of dating we split up I …

Is it a bad timing to ask if he's a virgin or not? 
Hello, I am new to relationships. I met an indian guy online. We started to fall for each other and One day our conversation got intense, like how he'll …

dear stella 
I'm 23 years old lady with no boyfriend. i am so worried with my status. i have a busy life and can't manage to go and find someone even though parts of …

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WHAT DO I DO? 
DEAR STELLA I HAVE BEEN ON AND OFF WITH MY RELATIONSHIP OF 3 YEARS I AM MADLY IN LOVE WITH HIM BUT HE SAYS THAT THE SPARKS NOT THERE ANYMORE THAT HES …

Beginner Dating Advice! 
I'm a teenager and I've never been in a relationship. I have changed schools many many times and my social skills are kind of down the drain. I'm super …

What do I do now? 
Dear Stella, Back in October I started dating this guy I met after I joined the Red Cross. We were official for two months, but something happened and …

does he like me?? 
hi:)..i m 16 years old...i like a guy. he is very handsome. he is my close frnd. we talk every day about 1-2 hours on phone.... also went for movie. on …

Complicated Relationship 
Dear Stella, Can u give me some advice? because the pain i feel inside is killing me.Shes my Girlfriend since 3rd year high school and …

How do i tell my mom about my long distance relationship? 
So i met this boy online . I am 13 hes 14 1/2. I know hes not some pervert or pedobear beacuse we facetime all the time , everyday. So my mom gets really …

Second Heartbreak 
Dear Stella I'm jho and I'm 21y/o. I was experience my 1st love when I was 18.He's my bestfriend, and I am his bestfriend girlfriend, he's courting …

confused 
i dont understand what the problem is, my fiance dont seem to have any interest in me anymore since i had our baby 3 months ago. he dont touch me anymore …

weary girl 
I broke up with a long term live-in BF, but reunited with him approx 5 months ago. He arranged counseling for us both, and paid for it. Previously, I …

Crush on a sort of one night stand 
Hi, so I just graduated from college on Saturday. I hooked up with this guy (as in sex) the night before I graduated and we ended up sharing really personal …

I Still care... 
Dear Stella, We were done. Over with. Almost a year and a half ago. We still had the same friends, so i see him every morning. We didnt talk much, but …

confused 
I've been dating this guy for 10 months and we are both at college and we are in very different states. But over Thanksgiving break after a fight he said …

I'm so so so jealous.  
today I broke up with my bf although he refuses, we are together for 2 years, and we broke up just because he talks with girls whom have a good conversations …

Confused... 
I´ll be as brief as possible: male friend travels on vacation to west coast where I live and looks me up via a third party. Wonderful surprise! We have …

Please HELP Me  
Hi Stella, I am a woman in my 40,s who has been married for 20+ years,i had a very insecure childhood which had me loking for love despaerately, i had …

Crush problems, help! 
Hey there, I really don't know what to do, hope you can help me. I live in Brazil, Rio and there's this american guy that just moved here. We have some …

Reading the Signs 
I am 41 years old and am ready to settle down. I have never been married and have only been in one serious relationship that lasted about 10 months. I …

Help! I'm a terrible wife  
I am married to an amazing man that loves me, is my best friend, supports me whatever I do, and would die for me. I feel very lucky to have such an amazing …

Love with the colleague 
Hi Stella.. Its been one year that i have started working..and in these months, i have developed crush on my colleague, senior to me.. he is a very decent …

Im in love with a guy who is 8 years older than me but.... 
He is scared because of the age difference between us. He's 28 and I'm 20. He also said that he's not saying that he won't date me. He just doesn't want …

Broken Engagments 
Me and my girl have always been perfect for each other, but after about 3 months we started doing sexual stuff and stuff went downhill, i asked her before …

Falling for him . . . 
Dear Stella, The boy I like is two years older than me. I see A LOT around school, and almost all the field trips i up going on he goes too. But I think …

one sided love 
dear stella i m in love with one of my close friends.but she doesn't love me nor did she love any one else. from past six months i m trying to convince …

old crush back to haunt me 
I am currently in a serious relationship of 4yrs, but I recently ran into an old crush.. I have not seen this guy in 7yrs.. 7yrs... and yet, it felt as …

Standing Alone 
Dear Stella,Im engaged to an italian who is 3 years younger then me.He's 19,Im 23.The problem is that I can't think of one person who will rejoice at our …

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Excruciating heartbreak!! 
Dear Stella I am writing in hopes of some answers. I have been in a relationship With a younger man for the last 5.5 yrs, totally fallen in love With …

uncertain 
My boyfriend and I moved in together about one month ago. We had been having a long distance relationship for awhile. I should tell you that this is our …

Girl I like talks often about other guys around me. 
Dear Stella, I like one girl. I have talked with her pretty much. Lately I have noticed that she has started talking often about other guys she knows …

Denied 
Dear Stella I had a two year relationship with a man half my age. He convinced me to keep it quiet as he didn't want it to affect my job or my relationship …

Confused! 
Hi Stella, I have an issue.  I'm a gay man and I'm interested and been "talking" to this guy for 8 months now.  He is a wonderful person a true sweetheart. …

need advise please 
I was in a relationship for a few months and it got serious very quickly, we lived each other both of us older mid 30's. We were discussing marriage. …

Im 19 and in love with someone who is 3 years older than me but my family disapproves 
Almost 3 years ago i got out of an abusive relationship, my family never even knew that i was dating, i wasn't allowed to date, so i hid all my relationships …

In a relationship with an older man 
I am 30 yrs old and my bf is 47 years old workaholic. We have been together for two years and within those two years we had a baby boy. In the beginning …

Partner cheated online. Now want's to join facebook! 
My Wife and i have been married 18yrs and have 2 teenage boys. For several years on and off ,she had been keeping touch with friends via Myspace and another …

dumb love........ 
I am 19 years old and me and my bf are in realtionship from 6 years...........He ditched me once but after lots of apologises and fighting i gave him another …

Should I go for it! 
Dear Stella, I met this girl about four months ago. We are both members of one charity association. I saw her for a first time at the event that we …

where are my feelings of love ? need help ! 
So Ive been talking to this girl for around 2 months or so and she is simply amazing. i would love to be with her, but when im not with her it feels like …

most difficult decision ever 
I apologize in advance for the lengthy details, but I want you to have a better idea of what's going on. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost …

I'm committed but I'm developing feelings for my best friend! 
Okay. I'm in a BIG problem. I have been committed for the more than 2 years and i really believed that me and my boyfriend were in true love. We love each …

Can I win my exwife from another man? 
Dear Stella My ex wife cheated on me and left me for 10 years younger boy. She is in her early thirties. We have been together for more then seven years. …

I go back to someone, that I know I need to move on from... 
Dear Stella, I love Christopher. But I'm just his toy. He was my first everything. Except, he hasn't taken my virginity. No one has. But I know …

I HAVE A HUSBAND BUT IM FALLING INLOVE TO OTHER GUY 
GOOD DAY I'M JOYCE,I'M HERE IN ISRAEL FOR MY JOB ORIGINALLY FROM PHIL, I LEAVE MY HUSBAND IN PHIL WITH MY CHILD, BUT EVEN BEFORE, HE HAVE ANOTHER WOMAN. …

A Myriad of Problems. 
Dear Stella, Ready for this story? My girlfriend and I started to get to know each other in June of this year. She had witnessed my previous relationship …

To be pushy or not to be? 
Stella, I've been smiling and making eye contact with this adorable guy in one of my college classes this entire semester. He sits on the other side of …

A love Problem !! 
I'm lost and so confused .. I was in love with someone for 7 months, then he left me .. And after one week we came back to each other because he realized …

what should I do!? 
I am almost reaching 30, and I have known this guy for years. I had a boyfriend for 9 years and he had a wife. we both have kids.. i have broke up with …

Not sure if he loves me or not 
I have a long distance relationship with a guy. After he went on for a one-week trip in Europe, he completely changed. It's as if I don't exist anymore. …

good in friend or in relation 
I have a relationship with one of my friends. We have been friends for the last five years. She has been in a relationship for the past six years. All …

Stuck in the friend zone? 
He and I work together and we have become very close over the last two years. We talk and text daily. There is a 20 year age difference between us. He …

What should i do? 
I had been date with a guy almost for 2 years. Our chemistry was so strong, and also our feelings. When i knew, he already have a girlfriend at other state. …

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Do I love him? 
I have been with my boyfriend, Mike. for 2 and a half years. But I have a huge problem. I can't stop cheating on him, not as in sex, but I am always going …

fantasy best friends mum and found my soul mate in her 
Hi stella, im a 28year old male an fantasy; my best friends mum who is 48years old. I have always really liked her an know she likes me but don't no if …

marriage advice 
I have been married for 2 years now but my husband and i don't get along well for the last 4 months, we quarrel a lot and he says that i want to behave …

hi.. 
Can you help me answer this.. how does love contribute to a healthy long term relationship?.. I really need a quick response.. thanks _________________________________ …

A very complicated situation 
My boyfriend and I were together for almost two years now and I can say that it is working very well, we argue but solve all problems immediately. …

How to keep my love on her last forever 
I want some advice from you, and apology first for my poor of English, hope you try to read and reply as an advice. I got a first love now. Before I've …

Getting my ex back 
My ex and I dated about 2 years ago for 8 months or so. I was very much in love with her. She broke up with me, because I lied to her about something small …

A 6 Year Relationship 
I have been in a relationship for 6 years now and we are considering marriage soon. It's been fine most of the time but i make mistakes from time to time. …

Marriage 
I have been married 25 years and have found out my husband has signed up to a nasty porn site with pictures and videos and can communicate with others …

Worried 
I'm a 22 year old girl and I've never been in a committed relationship. I fell for someone a couple years ago but it didn't work out the way I had hoped. …

Insecurity 
What do you do if your boyfriend is very insecure? He has been badly hurt in the past and is always asking me if I love him! It does my head in! I try …

Old enough to know better 
It's been a horrible year. The death of a parent in January, job lay-off in June, and now a break up with my handsome and amazing boyfriend of 5-years. …

Stay or Go? 
Met a guy a few months ago and we really hit it off. Saw each other a few times but nothing serious. Now it's getting more serious and the ex is back in …

totally screwed 
My bf and I have been together for 6 yrs since his daughter was 6monthes old and my daughter was 3. We lived together for 3 yrs and he always slept with …

Sex or no sex? 
I recently got back with my ex and I am now beginning to wonder if it's time to have intimate relations with him. Before there was a little voice in my …

Is there a hope or is it over? 
I have been in a two year one off relationship with my boyfriend. He's 31, I am 39. At the outset, he was very attracted to me and still is, he was very …

I'm lost 
She and I left for St. Louis last Thursday to see my grandparents for the weekend. We got back on Sunday and she wanted to end things Monday night, less …

Strange Relationship- Is it me or him? 
Ok. I knew this guy for 3 years. In those 3 years he tried twice to start a relationship with me.I didn't do it because i was going through a separation …

Is it over? 
Hello! Ok, basically I've been in a relationship for 2 years now and I'm not sure if I'm in love anymore. When we first met he was perfect for me and in …

My Ex left behind his stuff and owes me money! 
Ok, I know the law, after 30 days it's called abandonment. I am not going into details, just want to do the right thing because I care for this man. I …

It's like there are two of her. 
I have been interested in this girl for about 3 months now. She is very pretty is why she first caught my eye, but in all honesty i'm not the kind of guy …

I'm learning from my mistakes and I do not want to make any more  
Dear Stella, I came to another country because I fall in love with my ex, I followed him and left everything for love, at the begining I did very well …

lover boy of SF 
I'm a married man and had an extramarital affair with a single woman and she wants to have us a baby of our own, what should i do? we had this secret affair …

Do i already know the man i am going to marry? 
I am a 51 year old woman who has not been successful at love. i have had different relationships, but either end up hurt or hurting someone. I am a smoker …

unhappy relationship 
I have been dating this man for 10 months. I am 22 and he is 27 years old but he is very shy. In my past relationship i was so open and happy but unfortunately …

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Perfect partner but her kids dont want their dad ( rip ) replaced  
Hi Stella I recently met my dream lady and we are both very very happy with each other, we are so compatible with each other it is unbelievable and sometimes …

Confused ! 
I went to a party last week, and a guy was there who I knew. We'd already talked before, but we didn't really know each other that much. So everyone was …

Is he as interested as I am? 
About four months ago I met Leonard at a small cocktail lounge where my sister works for extra money. I had talked with him from time to time but never …

Am I overly insecure? 
I have been seeing a man for almost 10 months. He moved in with me two months ago. He had lived with another girl for about 8 years and then she broke …

Going from living together to Friends? 
I met this man at work and knew he was an AWESOME man. He was not on my radar, as I was married. However, we ate lunch together often and hung out together …

is it worth it 
I recently started dating this really sweet guy and he has been the nicest guy I've ever met. The problem: he's not the cutest and the girls I hang out …

Jimbo 
My wife said she had fallen out of love with me for awhile now. About one month ago she went to my daughters place to stay because she needed some space. …

A Really Complicated Situation. 
My best friend introduced me to a girl, one he liked alot. He asked me to help him to be with her. He introduced us online, for I live in another country …

Love Problem; parents not accepting 
Me & my partner are in love with each other for the past 7 yrs. We both are from different religions. Hence our parents are not at all accepting of us …

Love Triangle 
Dear Stella, I have a problem... well... my guyfriend, he likes this girl and he doesn't know that I like him, and I don't know if he feels the same …

He said he needs space 
Dear Stella, I am not happy with my live-in partner but I don't want to let him go. He even asked for space from me. He told me that he was happier …

Spa Girl or old GF? 
I am 27 years old. I have broken-up with my GF a year ago, after 12 years of relationship. This is because I felt there was no "MAGIC" anymore. Soon I …

Miss In a Quandary... 
I have been in love with my boyfriend for 2 years. We had a good relationship, he was supportive and I was telling myself that he was my future husband. …

Ronz- Back off or pursue? 
I fell in love with this girl and I know she felt the same way... but she already belongs to someone else. Because of my feelings for her, I made her confused …

Voluntary Separation 
My husband and I have been married for a year and half now. During this time we have only been able to see each other maybe 1 month out of the year due …

A Simple Problem 
My problem is real simple. There is a guy that I am so attracted to and at times he shows that he is very interested in me. We used to work together, …

What makes a good match? 
I'm looking to do a speed dating event in my area for those of the more gothically inclined. (Detroit if anyone wants to attend) But, I need ideas for …

Is He an Abuser? 
I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and 8 months. We live together and argue soooo much. He gets mad about me going on facebook and whenever I don't …

My head is spinning!!! 
I am 27 years old and have been in an off and on relationship with a man for a year and a half. We'd been together for 3 months when I found out I was …

Worry over husband's fidelity 
I love my husband very much. A couple of years ago I went through some bad problems which put a strain on our marriage. I have always been insecure, but …

Confused About Glasses 
I wear glasses. On my last date, I wore transparent contact lenses to my date. My boyfriend told me he he finds me more cute with glasses! Just last month …

Torn between two lovers 
I met this guy from a restaurant, we became friends. He was so nice, open about his dreams and the kind of girl he wants to marry in the future. We both …

Worried and not sure what to do....... 
Dear Stella, I met my current boyfriend when he was married, although nothing happened until they broke up and he moved out of their home in Australia. …

Worried About Late Night Skinny Dips 
I am a 28 year old woman. I live with my 32 year old fiance in a house he inherited from his grandma. The house has a pool. My fiance loves for us to …

The Affair 
Dear Stella I've been married for 20 years and most of those years I've been unhappy in my marriage. My husband is a great guy, great father, great …

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Keep holding on... 
I've been with this man for almost 6 years he decided out of nowhere, no warning, nothing, that he was done with the relationship. He has abandoned me …

Long distance relationship problem 
I am 17 and am from Mauritius. Girl's of my age here do not normally go out with boys, but most of them do it, secretly. Am in a long distance relationship. …

Can we ever get back to normal? 
Hi Stella, My boyfriend and I have been together in total for nearly 3 years. We had a very happy and good relationship and moved in together with …

Love sick ( this one is a real MESS) 
Hi guys, I have been dating a woman and in a lesbian relationship with her. We live a distance away and it's fairly hard to see each other. I have been …

I was a Rebound to my wife of ten years, now she says she is not in love with me 
I am 30 yrs and am in love and married to my wife of ten years. Before us she got out of a bad relationship; abusive, verbally and physically. In her …

Advice 
Hello. I have been looking for someone to go to for a long time but I've never found anyone. This is the last place for me to look. A few months ago, …

ChachaInips 
I met a girl at work. I'm a lesbian and this girl is married with a child. I sensed something about her but i wasn't sure. Well anyways... we became friends …

Shy Boyfriend 
I am a 24 year old woman who is involved with a 30 year old divorced man. He had been married for 5 years. I've never been married (but am hopeful). …

Im so in love with my ex =[ 
Dear Stella I never told anyone this..but it's been years... I decided I have to let it out... I'm so in love with my ex boyfriend he was my 2nd …

Married But Lonely 
Hi Stella I am a 48 year old female, married for the 2nd time been with my present hubby 16 years. My problem is my husband. He has no respect for …

Teresa 
My husband of 26 years left me for his best friends wife, my "friend". We have 3 grown daughters who basically took care of me while I hid in the bedroom …

Need advice 
Dear Stella, I write to you because I really need help. I’m 18 years old and I have never had a girlfriend. And now to the problem... I met one girl …

Don't feel the same  
Me and my husband have been married 4 years now, and from the honeymoon on, he turned into a different man. He immediatly got too serious about marriage …

Renewing an Old Relationship 
I am 41 and have renewed a relationship with a man who fathered my daughter when we were both in college. We never married, but he acknowledged and took …

Please Help, I Have Never Been This Confused!! 
I am 27 and have been “dating” a 25 year old guy for a little over a year on and off (on now for the past few months). We are not officially together as …

how can i get my husband to stay 
Me and my husband have been married for seven years. He has left I would say at least 15 times since we have been married! If I say one wrong thing to …

Cut him loose or fight? 
Dear Stella, I was in a relationship with "Dan" about 6 years ago. We lived together but it did not work out. In spite of that, we remained friends. …

What makes men back off from a woman? 
Was dating a man for 9 months; things were great. At 7 months he began to back off. What happened?? I am so very confused. He even told me to start dating …

Should I Stay? 
I have been dating a great guy for the past 3 and a half years. In that time we have had very few fights, we get along well, he is generally a great guy. …

Work colleague 
Wow - where to start - Single guy meets girl at work who is amazing. They spend time together at shopping centres, go for burgers at lunch, meet under …

so bored ....what to do.. 
good day to you miss stella.. you see i have been going steady with this guy for 2 months.... problem is.. we haven't kissed yet... he said he's …

Fling vs. Marriage 
I have a 5 yr steady relationship with my first boyfriend W since our tertiary days. Recently, I met a british guy (he is my customer) and we hit it off …

Elderly father moving in 
I currently live with my girlfriend in her house. (not my idea) but putting that aside, her elderly father is now suffering from some health problems and …

I Can't Ask Her Out 
So here's the deal; I'm secretly in love with her for 3 or 4 years now and I know that at least she was in love with me (even if she isn't now). My problem …

30 years have past 
I dated a woman 30 years ago and I broke it off at the time because I wasn't ready for the feelings I was having. We both went on with our lives but earlier …

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Orginal Feelings Gone! 
My boyfriend and I started dating in 2005, when we were around 16. It wasn't long after that until we fell in love. We never really had any major fights …

Do I move on or be patient and wait for him to heal? 
I am 49, divorced after 26 years of marriage, 3 years now; money, possessions and heart all taken. I have moved on, but have met a lot of terrible men. …

New Relationship 
I met a guy back in July. I had talked to him once over the phone but we met in person at our friends wedding. He seems like a nice guy. I kind of felt …

He's Coming Back! What Should I Do? 
I dated this guy on the same b-ball club as me for 8 months, but then he was going to Australia for his studies in late 2007. We did not talk about Australia …

Yikes... Her Biological Clock is Ticking... 
I'm a 28 yr old male who has been in a relationship for 5 years with a woman who is 37. I love her dearly but there's a problem.She is ready to have children, …

Pictures are worth a thousand words 
Dear Stella My girlfriend keeps a shoebox of pictures that she has collected over the years. A lot of the pictures in the box are really questionable, …

No sex marriage  
We have been married for over 6 years now. We are from two different countries, with different background. We fell in love and married 4 months after we …

Should I Propose? 
For the past couple of months I had been trying to work out a reconciliation with an ex who dumped me and is now with someone else. I was on the rebound …

Stay or go? 
I have been with my current boyfriend for 2 years. I can't help but feel unhappy with him, but I am afraid that it is just my own fear of commitment in …

Is it a Deal Breaker or Not? 
While "snooping" around my boyfriend's apartment I came across his phone bill and discovered that he has been calling local "chat" lines when we are apart. …

I don't want to loose him ... 
Me and my boyfriend were so in love when we first got together, it was perfect. We were inseparable. I moved in with him and his 2 year old son and we …

Stay a Family or Be a Single Parent? 
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years; we have known each other for over 6 years. We have a 21-month-old child together. I love him very much …

Are we ready for marriage?  
We met in May of 2004, got pregnant in Sept 2004, moved in together in Feb of 2005 and have been together ever since. I believe that for the first year …

I'm Jealous 
DEAR STELLA: I have a bf now...but I cannot control my jealousy to my bf although he loves me... What should I do? FROM STELLA: Dear Maureen, First …

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