Does he like me or not?

Dear Stella,

I've been liking this guy for a couple of months now. The problem is I don't know if he likes me. We've started to become good friends and there were a couple of moments were I was absolutely sure that he liked me back. The other night for example he put his arm around me, held my hand and let me rest against his chest when we were at a party. My friends told me he was staring at me like he adored me. We also talk and text a lot but the problem is that he has a lot of girls who are friends so I don't know if he's just being friendly or actually genuinly likes me. Sometimes we're really flirty but then there are also days in which he doesn't respond to my flirting and talks to me like I am just a friend. I am really confused and I just need an outsider's opinion. When you read this, do you think that he likes me or do you think it's a waste of my time?


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make the first move..
by: Antonia

Hey girl.. Well, I have to say that from what you've written, it does sound like the guy does like you, but is simply way, way too shy.. However, hindsight really is 20/20. See, I know exactly how you're feeling 'cause I went through the same problem a month ago. After flirting with me for months, my guy got a girlfriend, but still doesn't miss a chance to be with me. So there is always the option that like mine, your guy is just overly friendly. I think the best thing you could do right now is just be honest with him. Be bold and tell him that you really like him, but even if he doesn't feel the same way, you want to remain friends with him. You don't really have much to lose and knowing what he feels, even if he doesn't like you, will help you get closure and move on with your life ! I know just how confused you are and how frustrating it can be for us girls to get mixed signals from the guy we like. Just give it a try, I know this probably wasn't what you wanted to hear, but still, hope it helps !

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