Girl I like talks often about other guys around me.

by Eric
(France)

Dear Stella,

I like one girl. I have talked with her pretty much. Lately I have noticed that she has started talking often about other guys she knows when talking to me. How she visits them or they visit her and so on.

I don't know her good enough to be sure that she is trying to make me jealous or that she just is the kind that talks so openly.

I feel that we have a "spark" between us but i can't be sure.

I'm very confused. I'm not good at reading the signs she might give me that she likes me.
I don't want to make a move before I know that there is a chance she like me.

So my question is. Does she trying to make me jealous of other guys by talking about them in my presence?

Thank you for your answer.
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Answer from Stella:

Hi Eric,
It is hard to say what her motive is for talking about other guys. I think you will have your answer if you ask her out on a casual date, like for coffee or a drink. I think her intent might become crystal clear if you do that. Good luck!

Hope this helps!

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