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Free Love Advice: Dear Stella: How Do I Know If He Really Loves Me?
Here's Stella's free love advice:
The only real, accurate test for true love is the test of time. I would answer your query more accurately if I knew how long you and he had been "going together". If you've only been dating a matter of weeks or months, it's far too soon to get serious and try to nail this guy down about his feelings. Let things unfold in their own good time. Love should never be rushed.
Women are known to be impatient about this, and most have learned the hard way that pressing the "love issue" too hard and fast can quickly destroy a potentially wonderful matchup.
Anyway, my answer to you is "wait and see". After the first magical glow of infatuation fades, what is left? Do you find him less and less attentive; less and less affectionate, missing in action more often than not? Those are classic signs that he may be losing interest, and therefore not truly in love with you.
Now, then, have you two been together a year or two, or even more? My advice to you is... do some soul searching. At this point, the "infatuation" stage has passed for sure. The relationship should have gelled and matured somewhat by now. Do an honest appraisal of this partnership:
If you can honestly say yes to most of these probing questions, then this is probably TRUE LOVE. And yes, he really loves you.
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