What will I do if the one I truly love doesn't love me back? I have done all that I can to show her how much I love her.. but still I can't feel her love for me...
I'm sorry I don't have a better answer for you. You cannot "force" someone to love you if they don't.
You might try pulling back a little. Quit calling so much, and trying so hard. Take a little time and space to yourself for a while. Maybe this will help her realize what you really mean to her.
Good Luck! Stella
PS: Anyone else have more advice for Jay-Jay?
Feb 01, 2008
I agree by: Julie
jay-jay,
I agree with Stella. Maybe your trying too hard. Give her a little space and maybe even date other women, unless you guys have a commitment. You will never know how much she cares unless you test the love.
Feb 18, 2008
Wish I could help by: shane
I'm going through the same thing right now. If you can help or you find any help, let me know. I've been with her for ten years and married for seven, and I don't want to give up.
Feb 27, 2008
Dont give to much of your love by: Arnold
Compared to you, I gave up already after a three year relationship to the girl I love so much. You know love fades if the girl you love doesn't show so much importance in what you are doing to keep the relationship..
If you are really meant for each other, let time decide. Just don't give too much of yourself to the girl because then it's hard to move on if it fails...
Mar 05, 2008
Help by: Anonymous
Please forget about her. I know it's difficult, but it won't help following someone if she does not have your time. And if you don't do that, you will end up stressed yourself. Me too, I had the same problem, but now I see that it won't help to call and show love to someone who doesn't deserve it. You have to move on and tell yourself that there is still a life after her.
