by jay-jay clutario
(pasig, mm, philippines)

What will I do if the one I truly love doesn't love me back?
I have done all that I can to show her how much I love her.. but still I can't feel her love for me...

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You can't make someone love you...
by: Stella

Dear Jay-Jay,

I'm sorry I don't have a better answer for you. You cannot "force" someone to love you if they don't.

You might try pulling back a little. Quit calling so much, and trying so hard. Take a little time and space to yourself for a while. Maybe this will help her realize what you really mean to her.

Good Luck!

PS: Anyone else have more advice for Jay-Jay?

I agree
by: Julie


I agree with Stella. Maybe your trying too hard. Give her a little space and maybe even date other women, unless you guys have a commitment. You will never know how much she cares unless you test the love.

Wish I could help
by: shane

I'm going through the same thing right now. If you can help or you find any help, let me know. I've been with her for ten years and married for seven, and I don't want to give up.

Dont give to much of your love
by: Arnold

Compared to you, I gave up already after a three year relationship to the girl I love so much. You know love fades if the girl you love doesn't show so much importance in what you are doing to keep the relationship..

If you are really meant for each other, let time decide. Just don't give too much of yourself to the girl because then it's hard to move on if it fails...

by: Anonymous

Please forget about her. I know it's difficult, but it won't help following someone if she does not have your time. And if you don't do that, you will end up stressed yourself. Me too, I had the same problem, but now I see that it won't help to call and show love to someone who doesn't deserve it. You have to move on and tell yourself that there is still a life after her.

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