I may have a crush on someone I don't know at all...

Hey Stella,
So basically I may or may not sound a little creepy but I was looking through my boyfriend's Instagram followers one day *we have since broken up for various reasons* but I looked on one of his friends account. He seems about my age and he is so cute ❤️

So. I immediately gained some form of crush I guess from looking at some of the pictures he posted of himself. I don't follow him yet I do sometimes look at his pictures which only hurts me because I know I'll never know him.

Anyway so I don't follow him. But I love him so much, I don't even know why. He seems really funny and kind of like me and I know looks shouldn't matter but he is super cute 😍. Another problem other than that he has no idea who I am and we don't even go to the same school is that he has a girlfriend...

I don't know what to do because I still fantasize and stuff even though it's wrong and I shouldn't and I see pictures of him and his girlfriend and for some reason it makes me want to cry.

Basically I want someone I can never ever have... I don't know what to do I think about him when I'm alone. This crush is wrong so I've come here in search for guidance... Sorry and thanks for if you reply <3

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We Usually Want What We Can't Have
by: Joshua Banks

What you described about yourself reminds me of a character in an episode of the original Star Trek series ... Charlie X, who was a 17 year old boy who wanted a woman whom he could never have, and didn't understand why.


So, out of his desperation, he kept making unwanted advances towards her, until Captain Kirk intervened, saying, "(Charlie), there are a million things in this universe you can have and a million things you can't have. It's no fun facing that, but that's the way things are."



Almost every day I see women whom I imagine what it might be like to be in a relationship with, but I know I could never have them.


A lot of people are going through what you're going through. It's all part of the human condition.


You will survive, and hopefully you will even go on to find true love with another guy, ... and when you do, you will barely look back at these days.

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