Is it over?

Hello! Ok, basically I've been in a relationship for 2 years now and I'm not sure if I'm in love anymore. When we first met he was perfect for me and in most ways he still is. He is so good to me and loves me 100% so I don't know why I'm considering breaking up because it's not like I could ask for anything better. It just that we've been together since I was 14 and now I'm 17 I feel like i just need a change, because I know I'm changing but he's still his old self.

I love him, he's my best friend but I'm not in love anymore, nothing is special anymore. The worst part is that it's going to be so awkward in our friend group, he said he'd never be in the same room if we broke up, and I honestly think the hardest part would be seeing or hearing about him with another girl. Sorry for rambling, please help :(


Answer from Stella:


I think you two should take a break. Tell him you need some space and time to "find yourself" and do it. You are far too young to tie yourself down permanently to someone you don't love, and you would not be doing him any favors in the long run.

If he flips out and won't talk to or see you anymore, then he was too immature to hook up with anyway.

Hope this helps!

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