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Dear Stella: He's Got a Cellphone Sweetie
I have a boyfriend that I really love very much. I'm honest with him and I always trusted him... But after a four month relationship, I have just discovered that he has another girl. Also, this girl was already his girlfriend before me. He says he knew the girl only through the cellphone, that they haven't met yet.
Please help me, I don't know what to do, as I really love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him. He apologized and said that he will forget the other girl for me, but they are still communicating. Please help me ASAP... Thank you... Your advice will be a great help for me!
I don't think you really want to hear my answer, but you must know deep down what the advice is going to be. You are too emotionally upset right now to think straight, so I will give you some straight advice! This guy is a "player". Not only did he sneak around on you with another woman, he has done nothing but lie to you all around. You do realize that he really sees this other woman in person, right? You do realize that YOU are actually the "other woman", as she came first? Then he said he would break it off with her, but that was a lie, too.
If you want to spend the rest of your life playing second fiddle to a string of "other women", then stick with him. But just know, the trust has been broken, and he has shown his true colors. He cheats and he lies, and that is the bottom line here. People generally end up doing what they want to do, and so you may stay with him anyway. Just keep your eyes open, your head on straight, and realize the tradeoffs you will have to make in your life if you marry this man.
So sorry, but that's the way I see it! Good luck to you.
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