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Free Love Advice: "I'm in love with a restaurant Nazi!"
Dear Mixed up,
George will probably react in one of two ways:
1. There is a chance that he was just doing it to "impress you", show you how powerful and take-charge he is. And when you tell him that you really aren't impressed with that type of behavior, he will hopefully see the light and mend his ways. Problem solved. OR,
2. He will become defensive, and stubbornly keep on with his rude and demeaning behavior. If this is the case, it really reveals a major character flaw in George. And you should think seriously about ending the relationship. Why? If this bothers you a little bit now (and you would not have written in if it didn't), it will only get worse, not better. You will never change him, and you will not respect George in the long run.
And true love depends on mutual respect in order to survive. If all else fails, print this column out and give it to him. Good luck!
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