Major Bump in the Road... the Baby Might Be His!
by Amanda
(Blackfoot, Idaho, USA)
Maybe someone can help me!! I have been seeing this guy for a few months and I am totally and completely in love with him. I was going to uproot my life and move to be with him.
He has told me he is in love with me and can't wait to marry me, wants me to be be the mother of his children and all that. So anyways, everything was going prefect, almost too perfect.
His ex girlfriend (who cheated on him and got pregnant) has sworn up and down for months that the baby isn't his until now. She is telling him now that there is a chance that it's his.
Anyways, he tells me he needs me in his life and needs me to be there for him, but that we jumped too fast and need to slow things down. And now he's saying that he just needs me to be his friend..his best friend. He says don't think that there is not a future for us.. because there is, and if all this hadn't blown up in his face, things would be way different.
I guess I am just having a hard time understanding how someone can tell you they are totally in love with you one week and then a few days later say that we need to just be friends for now. We are in a long distance relationship which makes this twice as hard but I was planning on moving to where he is in a few months.
I am just wondering what I should do. I want to be there for him and I want to love him. But I don't know how long I can wait for him. It's literally killing me inside. I have never been so depressed in my life. And I am scared to lose him.
I have told him time and time again that I am not going anywhere and if the baby is his, I will be there and love that baby as my own. Anyone have any advice???
