"A good hot oil massage is one of  life's greatest pleasures"
       --- Stella, 2005

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The happy ending massage...

Now you're talking! This is "hands down"  one of the most basic and beloved things you can do for your partner--- learn to give him or her a decent massage...

It's not really hard to learn basic'll then develop your own style... and before you know it... you'll be a Master Masseuse... and your mate just won't believe  his good fortune.

In this section, we tell you how to set the stage, get started on the basics, select perfect massage music, and then we point you toward several great resources... oh, yes, also a word about massage & sex.

And don't miss our most excellent new resource for creating a true "happy ending massage":  Better Sex.



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                SETTING UP YOUR "PARLOR"

The happy ending massage...

Of course, a massage can be given anywhere; on the bed, on a mat on  the floor, even in a chair. In the beginning, just set up on the  bed... lay out a soft old blanket first to protect your sheets from  the oil. This  will do until you are sure you guys like the massage  thing (heh heh)...

Later, a portable padded massage table with sheepskin or fleece  covers is an awesome investment in pleasure.


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Now then, what other massage supplies do you knead? 

  • A candle or two-to create a romantic, relaxing
  • Massage oil- (Warm the oil bottle up in a dish of hot water.)
    We recommend these to get you started:

  • Don't forget to add music to the mix--any soft,
    relaxing CDs you both like...soft jazz, new age or
    light classical work best... Check out our favorites
    below,  including "Music for Massage"
  • Your loving hands

To set the stage: you want to create a calm, peaceful sanctuary  where you will be undisturbed for an hour. Put the kids to bed, the animals outside. Unplug the phones. Cut the lights, fire up the  candles, spin some erotic tunes, and dive right in...    Sublime!   



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The happy ending massage...

We thought about this and decided two things:
     1. You must learn how,  and
     2. We can't teach you here in our website.

So we suggest here a selection of massage DVDs so you can learn basic technique in the privacy of your home: ***Warning, some of these sets are explicit guides to sensual and erotic massage.


    STELLA'S HOT PICKS  red hot chili pepper



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                 ABOUT MASSAGE & SEX...

The happy ending massage...

Massage  is a natural prelude to sex, leads right into it... it's such a sensual and relaxing experience...then those hands tend to keep on wandering, don't they?  

If you and your mate are interested in a true "happy ending massage", you might investigate this most excellent resource:  The Better Sex Collection.


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We also included some sexually oriented DVDs above to help you guys delve a little further into the mysteries of sexuality. And, in case you missed it, we provided much information and resources in our section The Sensuous Woman.  Plus, for a look at the lighter side of sex, and some fun massage games, visit our  Naughty Playroom...   



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                 MUSIC FOR MASSAGE

We recommend these great music CDs for your massage parlor:

Music for Lovers (Stephen Halpern)- Sensuous, mystical, a fitting tapestry for serious love-making

Enhancing Intimacy (Stephen Halpern)- Exotic and erotic, this lush and lovely CD is entwined with subliminal suggestions to promote intimacy and caring.

My Music for Massage (Various Artists)
Soothing and beautiful backdrop for a sensuous massage

Music for Massage: The Light Touch for Health & Harmony
Lay down for your massage and take a wonderful, relaxing trip down a lazy river.

Reptile (Eric Clapton)

- It's sexy. It's light. It's dark. Listen to it by candlelight... on the massage table... One of our all-time favorites.


                 MASSAGE & SENSUALITY KITS


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We know you'll both enjoy the massage can be an earthy expression of love and caring between two people...and make sure he learns how, too...

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