Move on with someone else or wait until I've actually moved on?

Dear Stella,

I don't know what to do. I just came out of a relationship three months ago. The relationship didn't last very long and it's time for me to move on. My old flirt recently came in contact with me and we've been texting a lot and hanging out. I used to be madly in love with him but then he got a girlfriend and things just didn't work out. But now he's showing clear signs that he's interested in me. The problem is that my ex is still on my mind sometimes and the thought of kissing someone else just absolutely revolts me. It's just so unfair because my ex is dating someone else too and he doesn't seem to have a problem with it. I do know that I like this guy I've been seeing but I don't know if I like him enough. Should I, considering I used to be in love with him, just go ahead and date him? I'm just so afraid that if I let this one go, that I'll regret it later because I think my feelings for him could grow. It's just that I'm not really over my ex yet but I also think that dating a new guy might just be the solution. I might get my ex completely off my mind. Please help me, I'm just really confused. Thank you in advance.

Ms. Undecided Dear Ms. Undecided, Your ex is exactly that your ex you need to be kind to yourself and move on but take it slow. You don't need another ex in your life Stella

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