FIND TRUE LOVE ON THE NET! (THE PROS AND CONS OF ONLINE DATING) ONLINE DATING TIPS
Welcome to Stella's Online Dating Survival Guide.... We explore the pros and cons of online dating, and provide super online dating tips for you.
Now, a word about cyberdating..........MAYBE..........
If you use it as a tool...to increase the pool of available dates in your area....then great....but...
If you go online to find the love of your life in Seattle...
And you live in Miami...
Then, booo....
...you are using it as a tool to avoid the real thing... face-to-face love. And don't go thinking you could actually fall in love with someone you have never met...cause that's just not reality...that is...fantasyland...
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Okay, okay...yes, we've heard the stories... the southern Belle meeting her English honey online. And, yes, they did finally meet, marry, and live happily ever after...but...
Think about it...the odds are astronomically against a long-distance romance succeeding. First of all, one of you would have to move...But aside from that...love is graphic, and chemical and physical...it's touch and taste and feel. It involves ALL the senses.
You don't want to waste months "falling in love" with computer text, an e-mailed image, and perhaps some phone calls...only to finally meet...and find out "It ain't there" !
No amount of logic, or matchmaking, or questionnaires can cause love to IGNITE.......
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It's a nice bonus if your interests and philosophies agree--but what usually ends up happening is this... you tolerate differences, compromise, and accept what he is... because you love him.
Bottom line...don't make this harder than it already is... look in your own backyard. If online dating increases your supply of local singles... then go for it... otherwise, forget it! There's other ways to meet them... face-to-face!
Okay, that's the lecture for today... now, as promised, here's your compact and useful ....
ONLINE DATING SURVIVAL GUIDE
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