Should I let go?
I've been dating him for a year and he doesn't want to be alone with me because he thinks that I will try to initiate sex. We haven't had sex because he avoids it like the plague. He will not talk to me about it and I have tried for so long to be alone with him. We are rather young, 42 years old, and I am not willing to live without sex. I love him completely because he is kind and gentle but I love myself also.
He has a MAJOR problem. He may be kind and gentle, but he is not willing to give you what you need. Stay with him and you are destined for a life of misery. Find a man who likes sex, Sherry. Most LOVE it.
Sorry to be blunt, but this one was easy.