Wide Ride or JLo Butt?

I am a 31 year-old woman and newlywed. I have a figure that although I am not heavy, flares at the hips. I have a sort of JLO/Beyonce butt.

My husband, the sweetest guy in the world, has a real soft spot for prodding his fingers into the flesh of my rump, hips, and upper things. He can't pass me in the kitchen without indulging himself. What I've always thought of as a problem area gets him hot.

I should be overjoyed, right? The problem is that my ex used to call me wide ride and fat ass whenever he touched me there and I am still self conscious about being touched there. I am not going to ask my husband to stop as I feel it's his right and privilege to touch me where ever and whenever he wants. I just wish I could feel differently about it like he does.

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From Stella:
Hi Body Image,
You've got it made! You found a sweetie who loves your body just like it is! Don't ever tell him what your mean old ex used to call you. Sounds like you are well rid of that jerk.

Adjust your mind and enjoy the ride! Life is short.

Stella