Will he want me back again?
I met a man in 2001 and we dated up until Jan/08. After I had found him a good paying job in Alberta and he knew I would be moving into to a small apartment he decided to end it with us.
He accused me of cheating on him a year before he moved away.. I didn't, and he knows this. It just made it easier to get out of our relationship and play the victim. He didn't want to get a place that I could move into and he didn't want me to find a place for the two of us. He didn't want to be sending me home any money to help me towards rent, food, etc.. He wanted all the money he earned all to himself.
He is now planning to move back home and has been keeping "tabs" on where I live, if I am dating, where I am going, and so on. He knows when he comes back to Cape Breton he doesn't have a place to live yet. We all (friends & family) think he will be wanting me to take him back.
He regrets what he did, and has been trying to get in contact with me since he left. If this is true, should I take him back and give him a second chance, or tell him to go to hell? I still love him and am (in love) with him still, but I am also very hurt and angry.
My heart says "Yes" my arms crave for him, my body aches for him, but my head tells me "No".